14 July 2008

TirEd, I am..

hey fellas! missing you.. :) us usual busy with my work. I'm so sorry for sending my reply late. well, again, thanks for those who visit my page and leave something to read on.
Right now, I'm really suffering headache. I'm in the office and not busy unlike this past few days since my boss is on leave however, she still ask me to go out to do something. yeah! It's okay though..its just that, IT's SO HOT OUTSIDE! My skin is almost burning.. really. wheew! nyways, I'm happy because I've helped my boss and that's it.. I hope she'll be here tomorrow. i missed her.hehe!

hmm...I hope i will feel better soon also. I really hate this feeling.. I'm weak and tired. :(

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13 July 2008

I'm pretty bored here

I'm at work now yet I don't have anything to do here. My boss is traveling now to Marbel for a meeting. She never left anything to do that's why I'm free. hmm. It's pretty boring here and I can feel a bit, just a little bit guilt since I'm still paid for this day yet I don't do anything..

I have thought of doing something but theres nothing I could think of.. I have done the filing, changing the slips folders, and checking the Comfort room, my table is clean, hmm.. if theres something we could do to get it better.. still, i found none.And so, I was able to update this blog home of mine. I just hope this will really work. I sometimes feel bored but every time I post something in here, I feel more comfortable and free.

I'm free now. Tomorrow will never be.. so can't visit here tomorrow cause i will surely be very busy. toinks! :)

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10 July 2008

Budget?

well, i just want to share.. hmm. I'm not sad but I'm not happy. So soon I will be receiving my 15 days salary. For your knowledge, both my mom and dad has no more sources of income and so, I carry all the obligation to settle the bills such as electricity, water and tuition of my younger bro. also, i am expected to give something for our daily needs. In short, I don't have any chance to buy something for myself. It's okay though..at least, I was able to help my parents and we're happy.
I can't deny though that something inside me makes me feel that I'm not satisfied. Maybe because I work so hard, i work overtime but I don't see anything for myself..i think I should treat myself sometimes, right? I mean, you know, new stuff to motivate you to work more.. do you get what i mean? hmm.ooOOooh. I know this is just temporary.. hope so.

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08 July 2008

whatEver

I don't know what's exactly happening to me. I could hardly sleep... jeeeZ! I just realized this recently.. I often go home tired and exhausted but whenever I go to bed and close my eyes, my brain is somewhat thinking of.. i don't know... honestly, i don't have any idea of what I'm really thinking.. I just really can't sleep. hmm.. What should I do..?

I want to sleep on time cause i believe i need more rest, I have to be at work on time or better if earlier. Also, to avoid skipping my breakfast.. wheew!
Whenever I'm in the office, I could hardly enjoy my break time since there are things i should settle outside. Also, there are friends coming and spending their break time in the office and so I can't really use the 2 hours break which should be my sleeping time.. huhuhu!
I'm soOooO thin.. I don't like this.. :(

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04 July 2008

just temporary i guess so

hello there guys! missed talking to all of you. Honestly, I've been reading your messages but hard for me to send back reply..But i thanked you for leaving me such though i don't respond right away. The reason why i failed to update my blog and send you back my replies is that, i was busy with my work. It's pretty amazing that though i struggle so hard about the case I'm in right now, the smile in my face remained relax and genuine. haha! if i could just tell you everything happened, you will surely laugh and leave a heavy comments. Right now i chose not to tell every detail 'cause I'm good and still fighting. well, this post is a sort of relief to me.. though i can't say it all, i know from this writing you have an idea about what I'm feeling right now. well, hope to hear from you guys. thank you so much for visiting my very own profile. certainly i will visit yours too. muah muah.

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monthsary ever

Today is my lucky day.. well, every 3rd of the month, i actually consider it as my lucky day. hmm.. bet its OUR lucky day. I'm talkin' bout our monthsary. hmm.. regardless of distance, we still celebrate our Lucky day. hehe. simple yet still memorable.

Thank God for another month. I hope and pray that we'll both wait for the right time to come. That we will prolong the sacrifices we have started.. this will never be easy but with perseverance and faith, we believe that soon we will meet again. And by that time, theres no one else who could separate us. May God be praise. :)

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01 July 2008

DO YOU KNOW THAT... Stress can cause severe health problems and, in extreme cases, can cause death.

Stress Management Techniques

This section of Mind Tools helps you survive under the intense stress that can come with a challenging career.

This will help you to understand stress and what causes it: This is an important starting point for effective stress management. They introduce you to the three main approaches to stress management, and then shows you how you can identify the key sources of stress in your life.

We then look at a range of stress management techniques. Unlike some other approaches to stress management, the Mind Tools approach is, where possible, to tackle stress at source. This means that not only do we show you how to deal with the symptoms of stress, we show you how to deal with the underlying causes as well.

Physical Relaxation Techniques

  • Deep Breathing, PMR and the Relaxation Response

Physical relaxation techniques are as effective as mental techniques in reducing stress. In fact, the best relaxation is achieved by using physical and mental techniques together.

These three useful physical relaxation techniques can help you reduce muscle tension and manage the effects of the fight-or-flight response on your body. This is particularly important if you need to think clearly and perform precisely when you are under pressure.

The techniques we will look at are Deep Breathing, Progressive Muscular Relaxation and “The Relaxation Response”.

Deep Breathing

Deep breathing is a simple, but very effective, method of relaxation. It is a core component of everything from the "take ten deep breaths" approach to calming someone down, right through to yoga relaxation and Zen meditation. It works well in conjunction with other relaxation techniques such as Progressive Muscular Relaxation, relaxation imagery and meditation to reduce stress.

To use the technique, take a number of deep breaths and relax your body further with each breath. That's all there is to it!

Progressive Muscular Relaxation

Progressive Muscular Relaxation is useful for relaxing your body when your muscles are tense.

The idea behind PMR is that you tense up a group of muscles so that they are as tightly contracted as possible. Hold them in a state of extreme tension for a few seconds. Then, relax the muscles normally. Then, consciously relax the muscles even further so that you are as relaxed as possible.

By tensing your muscles first, you will find that you are able to relax your muscles more than would be the case if you tried to relax your muscles directly.

Experiment with PMR by forming a fist, and clenching your hand as tight as you can for a few seconds. Relax your hand to its previous tension, and then consciously relax it again so that it is as loose as possible. You should feel deep relaxation in your hand muscles.

The Relaxation Response

‘The Relaxation Response’ is the name of a book published by Dr Herbert Benson of Harvard University in 1968. In a series of experiments into various popular meditation techniques, Dr Benson established that these techniques had a very real effect on reducing stress and controlling the fight-or-flight response. Direct effects included deep relaxation, slowed heartbeat and breathing, reduced oxygen consumption and increased skin resistance.

This is something that you can do for yourself by following these steps:

  • Sit quietly and comfortably.
  • Close your eyes.
  • Start by relaxing the muscles of your feet and work up your body relaxing muscles.
  • Focus your attention on your breathing.
  • Breathe in deeply and then let your breath out. Count your breaths, and say the number of the breath as you let it out (this gives you something to do with your mind, helping you to avoid distraction).

Do this for ten or twenty minutes.

An even more potent alternative approach is to follow these steps, but to use relaxation imagery instead of counting breaths in step 5. Again, you can prove to yourself that this works using the biofeedback equipment.

S u m m a r y

“Deep Breathing,” “Progressive Muscular Relaxation,” and the steps leading to the “Relaxation Response” are three good techniques that can help you to relax your body and manage the symptoms of the fight-or-flight response.

These are particularly helpful for both handling nerves prior to an important performance, and reducing stress generally.

This is an excerpt from "Managing Stress for Career Success", the Mind Tools Stress Management Masterclass. These physical relaxation techniques are just some of the important skills that we explain. As well as explaining relaxation techniques, the Stress Management Masterclass shows you how to take action to tackle the root causes of job stress - a side-effect of this approach is that you become more effective and successful in your career.

Click here to find out more about The Stress Management Masterclass, and here to visit the Stress.MindTools.Com site, which has many more articles on stress.

Warning: Stress can cause severe health problems and, in extreme cases, can cause death. While these stress management techniques have been shown to have a positive effect on reducing stress, they are for guidance only, and readers should take the advice of suitably qualified health professionals if they have any concerns over stress-related illnesses or if stress is causing significant or persistent unhappiness. Health professionals should also be consulted before any major change in diet or levels of exercise.

[http://www.mindtools.com/pages/main/newMN_TCS.htm]

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06 June 2008

time to reftect

Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend to them all the care, kindness and understanding you can muster, and do with no thought of any reward. Your life will never be the same again."

any comment with this quote?

It is one of the most beautiful compensations of life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself."

how about this, how do you find this line?

+be brave everyone. remember that God loves us so much.. better to love your fellowmen as well as what he indicated in his commandment. LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR as yourself.

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